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Related By Chance, Family By Choice w/ Deb DeArmond & SPA Giveaway!!!

Welcome to JoJo’s Corner.
I’m excited for today’s book review:

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Publisher: Kregel Publications (October 1, 2013)
***Special thanks to the publisher & LitFuse for sending me a review copy.***



Deb DeArmond has owned her own leadership training and executive coaching practice for fifteen years.

She is an experienced speaker and writer with work appearing in “WHOA” Magazine and “Dallas Family” Magazine and a cofounder of—an online community for Christian women 50+.

Deb and her husband, Ron, have three married sons and three grandchildren, and live in the Dallas/Fort Worth area.

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Transforming Mother-in-Law and Daughter-in-Law Relationships. What does it take to create true family unity between moms and the women who marry their sons?

The caricatures are everywhere, the jokes are inexhaustible, and the stereotypes fill the screens. From Marie Barone (Everyone Loves Raymond) to Viola Fields (Monster-in-Law) to Internet sites and social media pages like and a Facebook page for ihatemymotherinlaw there is no shortage of examples of the caustic relationships that can develop between the two women in a man’s life.

Deb DeArmond and her three daughters-in-law have conducted their own exhaustive research into the status of the women-in-law relationship. Their research, which incorporated online surveys, interviews, and discussions, included asking about the faith factor in the relationships they studied. Of the respondents, nearly 90 percent claimed they were Christians, and 79 percent said their faith was foundational and guided their actions and decisions. As discouraging as it may be, the numbers of those they surveyed who reported that their women-in-law relationships were “bad” were nearly identical to those in a survey conducted by a popular secular website that recorded no statistics on faith.

Beyond the statistics and their analysis, Deb brings to this book more than thirty years working with adults to improve communications and deal constructively with conflict. Aside from her research and her professional expertise, perhaps the most important asset Deb brings to this work is her own relationship with her three daughters-in-law that is so obviously and unusually positive that she—and they—are often asked to explain the secret of the relationships they share.

This practical and unapologetically scriptural book covers issues of personal perceptions, strained communication, the roles of sons and fathers in the relationship’s success, how to begin these relationships on the right foot, and the necessity of trust and love. Deb’s one motivating objective is to help women-in-law move from women who are simply related to strong and confident members of a truly spiritual family.

Product Details:
Paperback: 208 pages
Publisher: Kregel Publications (October 1, 2013)
List Price: $13.99
Language: English


Family…you can’t live without them, but living with them isn’t always a bed of roses.
And mother-in-laws….oh, don’t even go there!!!
If your relationship with your MIL isn’t what it could be, I highly recommend that you pick up Deb’s book.
Here’s why…
#1 it’s honest- the author doesn’t sugar coat the difficulties & dynamics of the MIL/DIL relationship.
#2 it’s helpful- the tools in this book are unlike anything I’ve seen before & really get you digging into the heart of the problem.
#3 it’s hopeful- you (yes…you!) can have a better relationship with your MIL & this book is a great place to start!




One winner will receive:
A $200 SpaFinder gift card (perfect for a pampering day of bonding)
Related by Chance, Family by Choice by Deb DeArmond (2 copies)

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